In Ghana, marriage is more than just a union between two people — it’s a deeply rooted cultural ceremony, a social milestone, and, increasingly, a financial challenge, especially for men.
From knocking (introduction rites) to traditional marriage, white weddings, and the many expectations in between, the journey to saying “I do” is often paved with significant financial demands.
In many communities, the groom is expected to bear the brunt of the cost, covering bride price, gifts for extended family, venue arrangements, food, entertainment, and sometimes even providing accommodation and transportation for guests.
Adding his voice to expensive marriage in Ghana, Dancehall artiste Stonebwoy has opened up about the deeper realities and responsibilities that come with marriage, pointing out that its true cost goes far beyond money.
Speaking in a recent interview with Joy Prime, the Into the Future hitmaker shared his thoughts on what it truly means to be a husband, highlighting the intense personal commitment required.
According to Stonebwoy, marriage demands far more than just financial investment — it also calls for deep emotional, mental, and physical dedication.
He explained, “Interestingly, marriage is expensive, and having a wife comes with its own costs. You have to invest time, which is incredibly valuable. You need to allocate resources, which are never cheap. You must give attention, and even attention comes at a price. These are things you simply cannot buy.”
Stonebwoy went on to reflect on the traditional expectations placed on men, especially within marriage. He discussed how societal norms often require men to be the main providers and protectors — a role that comes with its pressures and burdens.
“As a man, I grew up in a household where I witnessed responsibility firsthand. I understand that societal norms expect men to be caretakers. While it is a role we accept, it’s certainly not easy, and it definitely isn’t cheap. The costs are real,” he added.
Stonebwoy’s comments offer a rare, candid glimpse into the often-unspoken challenges of marriage, especially from a male perspective.
His words serve as a reminder that love and commitment come with sacrifices that can’t be measured only in currency — they also require a willingness to give of oneself, wholeheartedly.
